
So in just 2 1/2 weeks, I'm going to my 20 year high school reunion. YIKES!!! Yes, I've just shown my age. But hey, why not. I wasn't able to go to my 10 year reunion, so I definitely want to go to this one. I am really looking forward to this, but at the same time I am very nervous. My husband is not able to get off work to go with me. So I am going solo. YIKES again!!! He is my rock and he will be here in Tucson while I'm in Southern California. The kids are going to California with me. But my mom is meeting us there & she will watch them while I'm at the reunion. The kids and I can't wait to see my mom. Plus we'll go to the L.A. Zoo while we're there. Anyways, so back to the reunion. I have 2 1/2 weeks to go. I haven't bought my outfit yet. They say that it is "dressy casual". Now if that isn't an oxy moron!!! I mean c'mon. What the hell is "dressy casual"?! So my best guess is something a little bit dressier than I would wear to a job interview. Does that sound right? Would that be dressy casual? Someone said that even jeans would be ok. But to me, jeans are just casual. Nothing dressy about jeans at all. So jeans are just out of the question. And I don't really want to wear any type of skirt or dress. I mean that definintely could be dressy casual. But it's really not my style. Except for the long skirts that I like to wear occasionally. But they, again, are just more casual and not dressy. And I always tend to wear sandals with those. Which of course makes them even more casual. So, after thinking about this long & hard for the past couple of months, I have decided that some nice black pants, maybe khakis, although those also still seem casual, and also a nice blouse/top to go with. But then there is the question of what kind of top? And what color? I mean my favorite color has always & will always be purple. But should I wear purple? It could be nice. Then the other nite, my family & I were in a store & I found the PERFECT & cutest shoes!!! So ... my outfit starts with the shoes and now I get to create my outfit to match my shoes! I don't normally wear dressy shoes hardly ever. Especially heels!!! Not that I don't like to wear heels. But we don't really ever go anywhere that I need to wear them. So I think currently I have only one pair of heels in my closet & they are basic black. That's it! But I saw these shoes and they just JUMPED OUT at me & I have to have them for the reunion. These are the shoes that I have pictured here on this post. I'm sure I will also try to find other occasions to wear them bcuz I like them so much! They're not red red. And I like that. They're more of a garnet type red, which I think is really pretty. So now I need to find a top to match the shoes. My mom suggested I go to Stein Mart to look. I have never shopped at that store. Does anyone have any other suggestions for a nice top to go with my shoes? I don't want something that looks blah & old fashioned at all. And once I find the outfit, then it's a matter of how do I do my hair for the evening?!!! OMG so many things to decide on! Should I straighten my hair? Give it more curl than wave? AAHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!! All this for a few hours with some people that I haven't seen in 20 years. Why do we women torture ourselves like this?!!!!!!!!!